Me 10 months on. Positve agenda.

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Thanks T1000. Step closer to detachment isn't just based on her ignoring, but on a lot of the stuff that has happened over the last 11 months. It does get to a point, where you do start thinking, how much more can I keep trying. Hopefully the detachment helps with that type of thinking, by stopping it.
I haven't lost my love of the W, and would quite happily R, but moving into full detachment is my hope of improving me emotionally. I don't want to be the "desperate" me if/when the W does contact me, and in all seriousness, that is probably how I would handle that situation now. That is a problem, because I don't get the chances or times to practice and DB on her, face to face or even over the phone. You go for many weeks/months without seeing her or talking to her, and then become a blubbering mess when and if we finally meet up. I would have all good intentions to do DB then and there, but the desperation overcomes the DB.