H came to my house on Sunday to do some things with S20. It was a little strange because neither of us want the sons to know we're dating (or whatever). They got through the upset of the separation and now, this.

Anyway, that was a lot of in person contact along with all the texting that goes on. Now I'm sensing a little distancing and that's OK. I've always been the pursuer in the past so we'll see how well I do at not pursuing.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss