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Dude. Stop. Sit down and take a breath.

You worry too much.


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I just now got a text from her: nothing big just was going to order pizza.

I have no idea what that text means as a response to what I said.. I will text her tomorrow about Thursday.

I think too much I guess.... Lol. .. I think I will have a beer now.


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Her text means she was going to order a pizza because she wanted to eat pizza because she was hungry.

Read NOTHING more into it.

She ain't looking for a bit of pepperoni...

Get me a beer while you're up, will ya?


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Oh, this made me chuckle, what time is the next show?


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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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I'll be sure to post all of my interactions with w ... Maybe next time w will tell me she is going to bed early. I won't get it. And MrCAS will explain that she was tired and therefor needed to get some sleep. And all will be good lol


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Hahaha! Well at least you have a sense of humor over the 2x4's smile It's good that she's reaching out to invite you over, but it's also good that you're not jumping on every invitation. Don't be available to her all the time!


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Speaking from my own experiences... It is easy to get sucked into the WAS vortex...

What does she mean? Why did she say that? Why did she do that?

This is where DBing really comes into play. Stop the thinking. The pondering. The what ifs. The whatevers.

These things will just exacerbate the whole process.

I agree with AS in that it is good that she is reaching out.


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So I text her today: let's plan on Thursday then smile

Her (10 min later): I can't... (Boss) informed me that I am required to attend (Dinner in SF). Fundraiser (old company) used to require me to attend. I'm not happy... Bad food, bunch of drunks, and long drive home...

Me (10 min later): that $ucks!! Sorry you have to deal with that. Wish I could prove an excuse for you.

Me (10 more min later): (son) plays first football game today at 4

She has not responded.

Interesting that she is concerned about "bunch of drunks"... from what she had told me a few months back she would fit right in. Maybe she has mellowed a bit...


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Prove = provide in above


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Throwing out a bit of bait out there to see if she bites?


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