Thank you. I ordered the book today. Our kids are older, s-20 and d-24. Our daughter seems to have so much anger over the situation and is lashing out at me and blaming me for my H leaving. She has repeated any thing I have said to her, to her father. She also tells him when I am happy or upset. I try to always have a smile on around her, however it is hard. How to I handle an angry young adult that is inadvertently driving her father further away from me?