Yea, it is manipulative and psycho. There is something wrong with her.
She loves her kids, but she can't see how this hurts them. She is an accountant, but she can't see how financially she is paying nowhere near her fair share.
Everything in life to her is a battle that she has to win. She just can't tolerate me telling her 'No'. She will up the anty until the other person folds. She has to be in control over everything.
I wish I knew how to help her. Unfortunately, lately, I think I am part of the problem. I really need to move out.
My L said that the judge we have is willing to waive the 6 month waiting period. If we agreed, we could be Divorced by Oct. 1st. My W said that she changed her mind. She will not a agree to a D before Jan 17th. Legally, she has that right.
I asked her why. I said that living like this is unbearable. We have no chance of reconciliation. She shows me no respect. We hardly talk, and do nothing socially. She is actively dating, and not being discrete about it. It is hurting our kids. Why does she want to stretch this out?
Her answer - It is my choice and I don't want to get D right away.
I don't think she has a plan for living on her own. We started dating when she was 21. At the time, she was living with her Grandpa. He threw her out, and she moved in with me. She got pregnant and we got married. She never lived on her own.
Not really Gods plan for a marriage. At the time I guess I just didn't care. What a fool.
