I guess I have to be the "bad" person who is causing his unhappiness. He is not doing anything about it. I haven't even spoken to him in a couple of days except to say hi and had a good time. What gives?
I need to go dark as much as I can and just stay gone; but he will probably say that I am stalling a discussion on the sep agreement. I just wish he would not be an a$$ about it because maybe then we could have a conversation.
What is even more interesting is that he really wants me to keep the house and is "concerned" about if I could afford the bills he pays today. I am not even sure if I want this house....but he "wants me to have it".
There are too many memories and I am finding it hard to make decisions so quickly and on his timeline to avoid his wrath.... I won't ever win against him, will I?
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years
