Here I was, hoping for a restored R and that in a few years he would potentially find someone to settle down with (after we had both healed) or even that once he'd learned his lessons we'd find our way back to each other (yes, I did consider that,) and now I don't want any relationship with him at all. Everything seems to happen too fast...but that's Joe. I feel it's a gift that he actually left me. I think I would've been very unhappy by his side.
Tori, that's pretty powerful insight. I've followed you a little bit over the past year and know that you've come a long way. Recognizing that you are happier now is a great step for your future.
I agree with the advice you've been given. Text or email, but be you.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together