F, you are absolutely right. The text could have waited for longer, if it even needed to be sent. I did wait about a day and half (bssed on different time zones), but should have waited longer. I suppose I finally sent it on the Sunday morning, with the hope that we might have talked later that day. Rather than during the week which was quite busy. Again, I should have just waited. I understand you are not judging, just saying what needs to be sent. In a way, by sending it and getting no reply, has just put me into more understanding of what she feels/wants. That is to simply not contact or reply, unless she needs something. Pretty well has been the history since BD. I get it now.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.