All Out of Options

[MyNewStrength]

Well I feel like I took 2 steps back.. Should have stayed out tonight. I let H game me into a conversation tonight. First he says he was tired, but then asks me about money and how much I could afford to take on with the house. I said that I was still reviewing (which I am) but he say it as a stall tactic. I reminded him that I thought we were going to talk on the weekend when we were not both tired from working all day, but then he says I was being argumentative!!! I wasn't yelling, I was not being rude, I just said hey, I thought we were going to have this discussion over the weekend? But he was not having it. He said that this is why he is divorcing me. I did not cry, but was astonished. He said that I cannot have an adult conversation about this.

So unbelievable. He is the child with no concept of being in someone else's shoes, because the NARCISSIST has to be right all of the time!! They have no care about looking through the "other lens". He sees only his view of the world.

So I will no longer talk to him...be Kind in action, but not in voice.

Geeshhh!!!!!