I like that you see his departure as a gift. I'm sure you're right.

I don't think it really matters how you tell him that you don't want to see him. The main thing is that you not see him if that's how you feel. That's being authentic. As for how you present it to him, I think it's secondary at the moment. You're the one that matters so whatever makes you feel more looked after is the way to go.

Big hug, Tori. I don't post much but I'm still reading and always look out for your posts. You're inspiring.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012