If she never said "real man" that is good as it would have been disrespecting.

Next, I'm getting confused. Are you getting back together or not? Is that your goal?

You said earlier that even if you reconcile it will not last. Is that still your view?

Or is this, all this, just to be redeemed and not to have a relationship?

BTW - if you say it is not to have a relationship, I won't believe you smile