A super busy weekend. I went to a BBQ on Friday with my boating friends to watch a movie we've been talking about for months. We finally got together. Had a nice time. Then on Saturday we had guests at noon for a BBQ, we walked over to a neighbor's later in the day, who was having a day-long party with about 100 people, and then that evening we went to another BBQ.
This past week, my W went out every night. She went to her gym twice a week as usual, then on 2 nights she left at about 8pm to 'go shopping' but she also went to the rock climbing gym for some time. Consequently, she didn't get home those nights until about 10:30 or 11pm. She did not tell me she was going to the rock gym or afterwards that she went. On the second time she went, I asked her "where else did you go?" because she was gone so long, and it doesn't take that long to go to the supermarket. She said, to the rock climbing gym. She acted as if it was a spontaneous decision on her part to go. Yet, when she left she made a point of taking the car that had her equipment in it -- she had planned on going.
It bothered me because she is lying to me again. It is not a big lie, but instead of saying what she wants to do, she hides it and then lies about it, saying she didn't plan on going. I wish she was truthful. Lying about this makes me wonder what else is she lying about?
I also thought that with all this activity, it is as if my W cannot tolerate any quiet time. She needs to fill her day with activity: either physical activity or social activity.
On Sunday morning my W invited me to go to crossfit with her. Maybe to work off all the drink and food -- ha, I needed to!
Last night my W injured her knee while at the gym wrestling. I wonder what this is going to mean because exercise is an important part of her life right now. I hope she is smart enough to let it heal. It took my knee almost 4 months to heal and it still isn't 100%
