so, sounds like u miss me...lol....no i'm ok ttd...might have landed a job 2 hours north of my D's family here in north carolina. Will know for certain friday. And now I have been contacted by another potential employer here locally. Soooo, been busy for sure. At the moment also I have gone completely dark and n/c with my WAW with no plans to make contact even on her bday. I feel the way it was left by her I am the one who should be contacted. So 3 weeks n/c and all is well. Truthfully, I have been feeling better about things also. We did however, have a sad occurance over the weekend where my D lost her baby (miscarriage) but, was only 4 weeks and as told this is a common occurence sad but common. No long term effects from this either. So D and sil are okay to try again later. My waw heard about this from her D and waw texted my D to tell her how sorry she was. My D however did not respond as my waw is not exactly one of her favs right now..and yes I am staying out of that one...If wife and i were to ever reconcile (and that is doubtful) it would be very difficult for my D to accept her back. She has made that very clear to me....