Me 10 months on. Positve agenda.

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F, I do try to ask the forum for their views, but once we have an idea we do tend to want to do something about it. When there is very little reply (I understand others are not sitting at their computers ready to reply asap), it is hard not to go with the only answers you receive. While I do have plenty of time, it is a struggle with the emotional side taking that time.

I know and I do understand but you have to realize that this is a struggle you can win. You can beat your emotions! It will be a struggle for you but you can win this!
You and I have had this discussion several times already – You act on feelings and this time you did again.

This text could easily wait a day, two or seven – it would have made no difference, but your feelings told you otherwise and therefore you send it.

If I read your postings right then on sep 6. You wrote that you will apply 48 hour rule and on sep. 8 you wrote that you sent the text yesterday. On the 6. It was about the car and everybody tells you to lay low and then you sent “I miss you”. You had the answers but IMHO you were simply looking for an opening to contact W – when you didn’t get it your emotions invented one.

I am not judging if the text was right or wrong but I am telling you that you act on feelings/emotions and I truly believe this won’t get you anywhere with W for a long time.
I am glad you realized this but do try to beat those emotions next time.

Downloaded the audio and book.

Good! I still need to finish this for the first, second and at least third time to comprehend it, but it says a lot about emotions contra fact and so on – I hope you will get something good from it.
I know I will.

As usual all is well meant and I am sorry if I come out somewhat harsh!

All the best

F