Fig - Very good question. I called my attorney today to get her advice, but she had a mediation and I wasn't able to get a hold of her. Right now I am sitting at work trying to decide if I should move out when I get home.
My W and I agreed on the terms of the divorce, but nothing is signed. I am worried about moving out without an agreed to custody arrangement. Maybe for everyone involved, it is what needs to happen.
the condition of "no bad moutihng" is in the custody agreement, for whatever it is worth. But, like I mentioned, it has not been signed yet.