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MrCAS #2378083 08/21/13 01:49 AM
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How did you work on yourself at a snails pace today?

Tell me you did one thing different then the old JP wink


ME 38 W 37
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D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13


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Way to go jp, another giving up crisis averted.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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YAY!!!

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This board has gone from being a lifeline to a trigger for me.

Right now I can not bring myself to come here and read or post and I am not sure why.

My anxiety rises when I am on here and I just feel uncomfortable.

I do want to thank all that have followed and helped me, I couldn't have gotten to this point without you.

I dont know if I will be back to ask for help or not, but my intent it come come help others in time, once I get a better stance on my life and where I am at.

I continue to keep the guidlines of DB in my mind and belive in them.
I also am going with my gut and who knows what is right or wrong.

I will leave this open for now and one day come back.

Good luck to all.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
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sorry to hear this board is making you anxious JP smile We're here for you whenever you need to return smile Best of luck for the future and hope to hear from you again soon smile


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S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
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JP,

I know what you mean. It can be overwhelming to think of all the other people with broken hearts and broken marriages who are here, and sometimes you just don't want to think about your sitch. If you ever need us, we'll be here. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lefty

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Hiya J. You do what is best for you. If you need us, you know where to find us.

Hang in there, sweetie.

You are going to be ok.

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JP,

Take care of you!
All the best!

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ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
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M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy
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