keep taking it slow. time is your friend to figure out what you want and be in control of that. try and not worry what MAY happen (being stuck) and think about what is NOW. Doing something different could be just focusing on wonderful you.

(((((GTO))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home