Update, Muskeg behind me, sunrise in front

[Queen_of_Swords]

Hi Tad,

Things are going well.
H stays over when he can, and I am allowing him to move back in the family home this mid October.
Kids are very glad to have him back. My youngest says this all time : " I'm so glad Dad is moving back!"

The man has changed and for the better. He shows initiative, more confidence, and at last a willingness to speak up when he needs to! He's grown up.
I too have changed, as all of us in the thick of this must. I have addressed my negative coping behaviors, emotional immaturity (this is ongoing) and co dependency issues.
I now realize my own and true worth and I would not have allowed a return had my H not realized either.

Still very little remorse or guilt on his part. I'd like to have an apology for what he's put us all through, but for now I let his actions speak for him and in the end I may not find it necessary.
We're still talking about what we truly need from each other, now and again.

So far so good. Thanks for asking!