I have to say I feel sorry for the hosts she's staying with. They basically have the entire family at their house and your laundry is being aired right in front of them.

If your W is moving out soon, I'd give the hosts some courtesy and stay away until she is moved out.

If you really need to see the kids, I'd ask if you could pick them up for an hour and take them out for an ice cream or something fun.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012