I have news from Joe--I was right to assume he was moving with the woman, but there's more: she's pregnant. He said he had decided to tell her to not have the baby bc he was thinking about ending the relationship but changed his mind when he got a text that said the world was ending. Yup. So now they're going through w it. He says he still doesn't know what to do w his life.
Joe is being seriously tested by life, and his testing period looks to be extended for a long long time.
He started asking me all sorts of personal questions: was I dating, when was I going to get a higher paying job (so he'd have to pay less support,) what I did w my time. It was stressful.
I told him his actions and decisions brought him to where he is now and he needs to deal w whatever is in his hands now: i.e. a kid.
I would say I can't believe this but I actually believe it, knowing Joe as well as I know him.
I feel really weird. Like this is the final straw that severed all ties between Joe and me. It's over forever. Hmm. Really weird feeling.