Hmmm, when the kids went to bed I went to her room door and told her that "I am going to bed, goodnight". She was sort of surprised, she even said "Already?!". It was early for me, but I've been getting more sleep every night that we are apart and luvin it!
It was sort of funny too. A little bit before this, we were in the kitchen. She was cooking BBQ for the next eve's dinner. I asked her if there was something that I could help her with. She asked me if I would cut the mellon. ABSOLUTELY! The kids were upstairs and they left their channel on the TV. W said "is this what you are watching?". I said "No, but is your program on that I should turn on. I know you like Castle, should I turn that on for you?" she says to me: "no, I haven't watched that for months now, I really don't like to watch TV, there is nothing on anymore".
After the mellon is all cut and fridged, I sit down to read in the living room, the kids come back down and watch their show. Barb retreats to her room with TV on and txtng. She doesn't like TV? She did that night.
I think you are right about her seeing if I would pursue her. Maybe that was the surprised look she gave when I told her I was going to bed.
tonight we have a counselor meeting together, I am sure this will come up..
"Do what you can With what you have Where you are" - Theo. Roosevelt
