I'm just not sure what he thinks a marriage or relationship is about. He says he likes spending time with me, wants to be friends, and is sexually attracted to me. For the most part, we agree on the big issues, so why does he not think we can be together?
He wants his cake, he likes spending time with you, wants to be friends, and is sexually attracted to you.....sounds like everything is there except the commitment. I think he wants to keep you on a hook, string you along because you feed his ego. He likes the attention. Just focus on you and not on him and what he is telling you. You're going to find someone that will be all of that but want the commitment and the family with you.
You sound like you are doing great. You have your focus on the things that you want right now but he is still banging around in your head. I'm praying for you Sweet.
Me 32 W 30 Married 11 D10, S6 BD#1 January of 09 OM#1 2005 OM#2 Dec 08 OM#3 March/April of 09 Back together August 09 OM#4 May 13 W moves out June 2013 BD#2 June 21 2013 Filed July 2013 D final in Oct
