Well it's like I said before, where your W is right now is she doesn't love you or even like you. She might again some day, but right now this is your reality- she probably hates you (based on your last few posts I'm getting this impression). In her eyes you are the source of everything that has ever gone wrong in her life and getting rid of you is the path to nirvana. Anything you do/ say is going to be spun in a negative way. So you generously offer her help with no strings attached, and in her eyes you're being controlling and manipulative. You can't win this! There is only one thing you can do- go radio silent. You could offer her a bag of gold at this point and she'll find some way to make you look like a butthead for it. So don't give her ammo, go silent.
