Give yourself some time. This is so new. Most of us had that feeling of being punched in the stomach when we found out about the affair or had the bomb drop. You, however, had a knockout punch. Emotional turmoil sounds like a perfectly healthy feeling to have right now. Just take care of yourself until it gets better. It will.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson