Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
You better get schedules and money legalized ASAP.

I don't know how it is over there but a marriage under 10 years over where, no alimony is paid

Your W will most likely need to get a job. Then she can quit bitching because she will get the break she needs.

Please, get this legalized fast. Sorry your going through this.


Thanks GM,

My only financial responsibility is towards the kids, either an agreed amount or through the CSA. W thinks she isn't getting enough off me. If she went with the CSA she would get slightly less
She is entitled to 1/2 the equity in the house. The L I have seen thinks I should be able to sell house, pay off all debts and then split whats left. Right now that would come to less than zero.

She said only weeks ago that she loves being a full time M and that the kids should be able to have a full time M. I doubt think she knows what she wants realistically or it just changes with her mood.
I can't see her getting a job, right now she does OK. Most weekends off, Tuesday and Wednesday morning both kids are in nursery together. Monday one is and Thursday the other is. It's not the paradise she dreamed of but it's better than most single mothers have.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!