ruby, AS, bustin, bug, Tori, PS, FY, BF--you are my peeps! Thanks for your continued support here!
AS- You are right that our situations are eerily similar & that our thought-processes are very parallel. WOnder if our next chapters are also to be on the same road?
Been very busy with work and kids' new schedules--running around everywhere--to baseball, soccer, gymnastics, piano, boy scouts, cross country....life with active boys!
Last weekend was very interesting for me. Friday night I relented to go to a movie solo (sort of a forced alone time, as H had boys), but ended up actually texting and talking to 5 different guys at various times while waiting for movie at movie bar. Now, I have to say I initiated texted to one friend :), but 2 other friends texted me & then I talked to bartender and a guy sitting next to me!
All were very innocent conversations, but fun!
New, weird development...a long-time work friend is having major M problems (very similar to mine) and he & I have known & talked about our sitch's pre- BD. This weekend he went away with a guy friend & we texted during his "drunken" state of mind.
He tells me he thinks I am "gorgeous" and always has. Fine, I think, he's drunk.
Well, the next morning I texted him to see how he was doing and he replies, "Fine, thank you, Gorgeous!" Not drunk, of course.
So, I get a HUGE knot in my gut telling me this is NOT good...he and I CANNOT be anything but friends...not that his telling me I am gorgeous means anything, but it certainly crossed lines never before crossed.
I talked to him briefly today at work, but another co-worker was around so our convo was very "workish." I don't know if I should say anything or just let his comments go without addressing them.
I could be completely out of line, but his friendship means so much to me, I don't want things to get awkward or for us not to be there for each other in these rough times (as we have for a long time).
He is DBing to save his M, too, so I know he so wants his M to work. But, I know he is in a very precarious place right now too.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
