Yep...pretty much knew it was coming because it would be how she would see your offer.
This is my thought to a reply:
"W, I understand how you see my offer this way and please know that it is not meant to make you feel guilty or not move on with your life. I am offering insurance to you unconditionally and whole heartedly. Please understand that I do not try to alter your path at all. This is yours to walk, not mine. My offer stands, take care of yourself," Lefty.
That's it. Never bring it up again and after you figure your reply, it will be to her to contact you. And she may not. You will have to be prepared for that.
This offer, even though kind hearted, is viewed with suspicion by a WAW. They wait for the other shoe, they have come this far and are afraid of being sucked back in. You can understand this, right?