I'm starting to feel the urge to dye my hair. Maybe highlights. Spike it up. Hey, I want my MLC, too!
NQ, did you recommend DBing to your friend? I always recommend DR book. I have a FB friend from high school who was having a big blow up with her H the day after my W left. I told her about it. I think she read it. She said today she put her foot down and they're going to a counselor. I advised her to be careful... My only couples counseling experience, with my first W, was a textbook example of the worst case examples MWD describes....
Helen Mirren is a national treasure! As is Judy Dench.