Love that song.

T, I have seen seveal MLCs. A few up close. Where you are at is probably one of the, in not the, toughest parts for the WAS and the stander.

The stander is worn down from the hurt, limbo, detaching, etc.

The WAS is trying to reconcile what sent them to the tunnel, what happened while in there and how to make the final push out.

It is important to allow them the time and space to do that, while also letting them know that you are around, and it is safe.

I know you can do all this, T. But your patience will be tried at times as she works through it all. I have talked about them needed to take a few steps back in order to make the leap over the puddle.

So, one supersonic, deluxe shovel for you. Free of charge.

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