So I'm going to see the counselor tommorrow night by myself first to see if the counselor would like to confirm my H to stay in marriage or not.
Ummmm, what? That's not up to your IC. If your IC is telling you whether or not your H should stay in the marriage, then you need to run from that IC ASAP. Your IC should be as pro-marriage as you are.
Originally Posted By: peaceSJ
BTW, H's best friend told him a lot about the cons of divorce and adviced him to rethink about the divorce. My H asked him not to involve this sitch any more, he even told him otherwise they're no longer friends... I think my H is really in MLC... He didn't listen to anybody, even his parents and best friends.
Right, that is why 3 of us advised you not to involve the in-laws. This is typical script for ALL WAS's. You can't use this as a litmus test for MLC, they all do it whether MLC or not.
