Thanks for your encouragement! I realize I started two threads, but I agree with you, it seems to be a benefit so far.
Although I understand where HS is coming from, I intend on staying the course with my improvements and "foundation building". I really need to demonstrate to my W that my changes are for real and I'm committed to maintaining them.
I suppose if my circumstances were different, such as, I treated my wife like a queen for the past 10 years and she chose to enter into an A, that would be different. But I realize I contributed much to my current state of affairs (no pun intended) and I believe I have to earn the right to make demands of her.
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
