Sorry to hear that your H didn't have the heart to heart that you wanted him to with your son I bet it was confusing for your son to go to a cafe with his parents when they're not together anymore. Glad that you didn't get emotional when he left though and feel that you can now move on with your life We've not been anywhere together since H moved out, apart from a costa in another town where no-one knows us anyway. It must be weird sitting at a cafe where you've always been to as a family. I feel sometimes that H is taking it to the extreme by not going out as a family. The first time he left we went to a cafe for lunch in our local town and even went to the cinema together. Now we don't do anything like that together, I've invited H along but the answer i get is always the same - I don't know what I'm doing that day! You would think he would come along for the sake of his son. Anyway I do what DB says to do and carry on with my plans anyway.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I bet it was confusing for your son to go to a cafe with his parents when they're not together anymore. Glad that you didn't get emotional when he left though and feel that you can now move on with your life 
