I think she is saying to you that she wants you to sleep on the couch, I don't know why she said because that is always what you do. I wouldn't say anything to her about this. I've got the same problem with H. How can I tell him that I've changed and I want him to share the bad with me now? I can't as he's left! He did say to me that him leaving wasn't about him sleeping in a separate room or the lack of intimacy, but he was just unhappy. We can't change the past. I do wish sometimes that we could turn back the clock and start all over knowing what I know now! It makes me sad as he never once said how much it was upsetting him that we were living as friends. He just let it ride until he could stand it no longer!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
