Wonka, I was eventually going to introduce this same scenario, just didn’t want to scare anybody too soon, hehe. I have many other scenarios in my head, so if there is an interest, I’d be glad to put them out.
Linda, it is great that you have your MIL’s and your son’s support. I know it means a lot. I’m very grateful to my GF in Mexico for her support in my sitch, even at the expense of her own cousin. What I learnt from the e-mail exchange is that my GF was putting lots of pressure on her cousin and my H to stop the relationship. I know she also protected herself in the process, but it is because our friendship means a lot to her and she didn’t want me or her to be hurt.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state