I think maybe H and I are both in MLC (though mine is far less dramatic and doesn't involve an A).
We both have childhood issues that seem to fit the profile.
Even though H was the one who started an A, I was the one who moved out after the bomb. I felt very strongly that I needed to run away from him, start my own life away from him. I haven't been able to call myself LBS, as a result.
What's the prognosis when there is no "sane spouse"??
Me 47, H 39 D 13, S 11 M: 17 years T: 19 years H's PA began: Oct 2012 Bomb: 02/13 Moved to MP: May 2013
