Linda,

Your MIL has been around the block a few times and has probably seen some men having A's while married. Smart of her to realize that H needs to get RT out of his system. The sooner...the better!

Bright,

I'll jump in and make up another scenario for H.

Wakes up one early morning, walks into the kitchen half alseep, flicks on the half-broken overhead fluorescent light and screams "AAAAAAAAGGGGHHHHH" as 100 large cockroaches scurry about for cover and 4 are lounging in his fermented oatmeal.

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