Everyone is right. It's a very long rollercoaster ride.

My H was dead set on getting a D, now he's "not thinking that far ahead" and is happy to just be officially separated. And he's been a lot more open and chatty since our separation went from "trial" to "official".

You've still got a long way to go, stay strong.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks