Blindsided Part 2

[chl0901]

As you said yourself earlier - script. This isn't going to end anytime soon. At least you sound like you're in a good place and able to handle the changes as they happen.

Just remember never take anything he says personally and, at the same time, don't read too much into positive changes until you've seen them last.

You've got this. Stay strong.

Thanks, NQ. I'm trying to stay strong and do the best I can. I got upset when he was telling me he hated me and everything wrong with me, etc., but I held it together for the most part I think. Just going to keep on keeping on.

They don't call it a roller coaster ride for nothing! His behavior reminds me of Accuray's "hot and cold" post from a while back...

Thanks for posting, AS. That is definitely close to what I am experiencing right now. When he was hating me on Friday and Saturday, I remember thinking how confused must he be to say these things after telling me the exact opposites the day before?

^^^. Strap in for the ride!

My W told me last Monday she loved me, wanted to be married to me, wanted to go to counseling and date - today, she wants divorce.

Just know you're not alone - there's more than one seat on the rollercoaster!

It just blows my mind how they can constantly change their minds and feelings! I know how I feel! I just want to be loved and respected by the person who I love and respect.

And even though I am sorry you (and others) are going through similar times, it is comforting on some level to know I am not alone in this ride.