I don't want her to fail, well most days I don't lol. I'm healing though. She is doing things that I don't agree with, and honestly if she was a decent person she wouldn't be doing. If she was a decent person we wouldn't be getting a divorce.
Well, the decent person thing... you know I have to respond lol. That is subject to perception. Her perception is different than your perception, does this make her bad or not a decent person?
I heard a quote a couple of months ago and it kinda stopped me in my tracks: "Don't judge my sin just because it's different than your sin".
Allow her to be without judgement from you. That is easy to say and tough to do. At times I have to remind myself of the quote and renew my thought patterns.
Another quote this one by Ghandi:
“Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.”
― Mahatma Gandhi
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
