Accepting another's POV as valid is a step toward maturity; we each have our own experience. If her experience is false, then so might yours be.

Take what you can use and leave the rest.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss