Anyway, he is on his second phone, texting, ALL of the time…and it gets annoying. We were at our son’s football game and he was on his other phone the whole time and I made a comment about that. Also, when I do have to text him about the kids…all I ever get in return is “K”…..no matter what I text him.
He writes way longer texts to everyone else….so I also brought this up. It stinks that his work buddies he’s know a year or less (and whoever else) get long, fun messages from him while I get “K”….
My H was the same - although he never bothered with a 2nd phone. The phone bill comes to him online and I can't access it without a password so I could never snoop. I always knew when it was OW he was texting as he would turn his phone and hold it closer so that no one else could see and it was the also the only time he wouldn’t comment on who he was texting. He’s even sat at the table in a restaurant with our son and me and texted back and forth to OW.
It really annoyed me as well that his friends get longer texts and faster responses than I did, but I've finally learned not to let it bug me too much. Actually it's a lot easier now we're separated, and the funny thing is that since our separation stopped being just a trial, his texting around me and to me has improved considerably. The last couple of times I've been out with him, he's been much better about not texting back and forth to friends (including OW) and his texts to me have been more than one or two words in length.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
