Our 10th anniversary is Thursday. Last year, H and I had a great August/early September (coming off of another 2 month emotional separation after he saw me hug ex OM); the day before our anniversary I received a card in the mail from my mom and realized it was the next day so I said to him "tomorrow is our anniversary" and he said "big deal, we don't have anything to celebrate" I was crushed because I thought things were going well".
Yesterday H said to me "Our anniversary is Thursday, I don't want you to think I don't want to celebrate this year because I do, however, I think with your workload at school and our current lack of money, it would be better if we can just recognize it with something small and then plan to go away together in a few months". What a difference a year can make!
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
