Time to learn about boundaries and go as dark as possible. If he wants a divorce let him do the work for it.
Yes if you are going to speak with him agree on everything. But be sure to PROTECT yourself with your actions.
I however did the EXACT OPPOSITE of this. I made all of the arrangements and made it as simple as signing a few pieces of paper, even that was too difficult and any discussions or terms were made between me and her parents as she wasn't involved. I really messed that up.
Considering all of that. I'd love some insight.
together 7+yrs Married 3 Me 33 W 33 no kids BD 9/12 MC 9/12 W leaves MC 10/12 W moves out 11/12 Divorce 2/13 W moves 5/13 NC 05/13 D final 8/13
