Forgot to add:
4. New phone number - which I don't know
5. Friend saw message first and cancelled it - have felt that has happened a few times before.

Only 9 days till I find out if I transfer back to the city.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.