Thanks for stopping by my thread. We share the same thoughts about staying connected and the best ways to do that. It doesn't work for everyone but it's nice to be able to compare notes with someone else than can "get away" with saying things that might send other mlcers into a tirade or off running. Cautiously and carefully dipping a toe in there now and then is a good way to test their progress.
Ya just gotta know when to not say when!
I think it makes us look strong when we say things that show us standing up for ourselves, expressing our real thoughts.
And since the goal is to eventually reconnect fully, why not try to stay connected as much as possible, if at all possible? Better than starting all over from scratch, I'd say. But it does depend on the sitch. If they pull away hard and fast, there's not much chance of us staying connected with 'em.
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BTW, I did an updo one day but it was on a day that he didn't stop by so I'm now perfecting the "do" so that it can't be copied by the ow!
I wish I could see it, I bet it's hot.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
