And yet, setting and living boundaries are inherent to creating a healthy relationship. And I believe, from my history with starsky he would Agree with that and can teach the healthy boundary.
I would love to see him create that thread.... The healthy boundary, and yet he ha taught that concept for awhile.
DB teaches you to train yourself (change your behavior) to affect your spouse's behavior. This, to me, is teaching boundaries to yourself.
The Last Resort Technique teaches you to set a very tight boundary around yourself.
The After the Last Resort Technique teaches you to ---after, after, after the other techniques --- To issue a boundary, the ultimatum, and then let the spouse change. Ideally, it happens in a space before you move on, in a space where your spouse wakes up. Gets it and changes.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
