I want you to think about that, really think about what you are doing and what your expectations are.
I haven't read your full story but the last 10 posts or so don't feel good. She is seeing this other guy, talking about this other guy to you, you are listening to her, she is asking you to keep your phone on for her, to help her move, to fix and clean stuff for her. 3 months ago she was in Paris, told you she was in love with the other guy and needed a "real man".
None of this sounds healthy, none of this sounds good for you, her, or your daughter.
Why are you there for her at every whim when she has told you she loves another guy and that she needs a "real man". Do you not consider yourself a real man?
I think you need to be shaken a bit.
I am not trying to deter you from the potential of reconciliation - but this is not the way to do it. If you get her back this way, "this" way, are you considering how it will reflect on you later? How she may view you later? More importantly how you may view yourself?
All the things going on independent of each other doesn't seem so bad. But putting it all together, it just doesn't feel right. It feels like you are taking whatever she will give and she knows that.
