Your mil is a wise woman, just like the sages here. She can see through his lies. She confirmed what we all have learned here, leave him be and let him get over RT in his own time. Nothing we say or do is going to hurry the process.
I'm happy that your surgery went so well. Did they give you something to ease the pain? You are right to take care of yourself so that you can have the time of your life over in GB.
Your h is thinking about you and the email that he sent, although short and grade schoolish, is evidence that they don't completely let go or forget about us even when they're with their ow. Sit back and enjoy your alone time and let them have their arguments and disagreements. The time that the mlcer spends with their op isn't at all what we thing it's like. Re-read my h experience with his ow. It hasn't even been 3 months yet and he seems determined to find a way to get rid of her. LOL
Take care of YOU and enjoy the peace and quiet.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
