Hey Mountain, you dont stink at this. This is hard stuff.
So, ok, not the best response you could have sent. LOL! But we'll get back to that.
The thing is, that she gave you some valuable information.
She feels you hanging on.
Detaching is GAL, moving forward, doing 180's.
But letting go, well, that is a mindset.
It means a few things. It means that you do not allow her words or actions to affect your words or actions.
It also means that you are allowing her to walk her journey without any kind of influence from you.
It means that you hear her. You really hear that she said she does not want this marriage. Doesnt mean it will always be that way. But it is what is right now. And by hearing her, you are honoring her.
It means that you are not looking to her or at her for any signs that she has changed her mind.
It means you wish her well on her life's journey and you mean it because you love her and want her to find happiness.
As for your response, by texting what you did, it is showing her you are not hearing her, ya know?
