He will be expecting you to disagree with him, whine, cry, beg. Do the opposite! Do not tell him you don't think a few counseling sessions is trying; not only do you not want to argue, joint counseling is a bad idea right now. As you have already experienced, many counselor a just want to help you separate. I agreed Togo to counseling with my H when I was a WAW and I sat there pretending I wanted to work it out when I didn't want to. In addition, the times I was ing and trying to work on the M, we would have an on week and then gettoncounseling and bring up everything that was wrong in our M and the next few days would s*ck.

Try to get back to work. I know it is hard but it will be good for your mental health and good for your H to see you getting moving again.

Be strong. ((((Hugs))))

M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13